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Emotional wounds are the most common reasons that physical healing takes so long or fails to fully heal.
When we feel emotional or physical pain, there is a natural reaction to have someone or something to blame.
Where there's an inner wound that has festered, it becomes easy to lash out or have sudden outbursts of anger, hate and resentment.
People are abusive because they have a subconscious memory or a genetic pattern that shards off like a firecracker or the opposite, the silent treatment is the weapon. People stay in abusive relationships because their self esteem is confused or so battered they lack direction or the ability to make decisions.
Psychological scars are hard to identify. People with painful scars from abusive relationships come to me almost everyday – the basis of ‘lacking confidence and anxiety’ is often founded in psychological scars. Its not just in the school playground or workplace that bullying happens, it happens in the so-called, ‘love and security’ of relationships, in a minority of cases some are self-inflicted. With or without alcohol stimuli, it happens.
Thank you to those who have contacted me with a plea for direction - to say... the workplace has lost it’s charm, relationships feel common, the once special moments are either none existent or a burden, conversations are emotionally charged, life is brimmed with disappointment.
What has happened - the honeymoon is over!
Every year, every day, is about change. This year our lives have been rocked at the many losses, loves and lives that have been guiding lights and influential in activating change... family, friends, mentors, greats, those whose voice has been in our lives by way of music, song, arts, leaders, justice...
