Unconditional love does it really exist?

On certain levels of our human-being-ness I’m sure our intent is that unconditional love exists…but let’s be real.

Restless nights and childhood terrors, why did these evolve? What stimulates inherited memory.

Perhaps from the authoritative voice, the voice that said "I love you" and also said…"I’ll be happy when... when you tidy your room, when you pick up your toys, when you do the dishes, when you be quiet, when you go to sleep, when you leave home. " In my own parenting I know I didn’t always 'get-it-right'.

Tuned into the river, watching the movement, the birds, the dolphins, feeling the flow of the wide expanse, and close by watching tiny fish, and insects.

This is not just a casual visit, it is purposeful. A group of people suffering, yes suffering, from aloneness.

I take them to my river, a river that 'squillions' of years ago I flooded with my tears, tears of sadness, passion, heartache, mourning, deep sorrow, disconnectedness, bereft and so many feelings that have no words.

Genetics determine our physical traits; this doesn’t mean your genes should dictate how healthy you will be and even how long you will live.

In a busy and demanding world full of obligations and opportunities, we sometimes lose connection in our primary relationships, thinking they will tend to themselves. They don’t.

In these present days where many are working and schooling at home twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week, complacency and irritation can become a normal way of being.

I believe personal development must be addressed before professional advancement and absolute career success. I’ve worked with many business executives, professionals and everyday people. The stress each carries comes from childhood events, misunderstandings, humiliations, disappointments, mistakes.

Over the course of our lives, our bodies become impacted by emotional experiences that we are supposed to know how to navigate.

My ancestors spoke in metaphor, and though I know little of those stories I feel them in my voice as I relate my life's knowing.

Through the ages natives of all cultures used symbol in story. All good stories contain a lesson, a memory. Hieroglyphics is story in character. Cave dwellers used pigment to paint on walls with their hands leaving history and myths. Scriptures share lessons in parable.

Have you ever asked yourself, what makes the difference in people's lives?

What makes one person successful, vibrant, healthy, filled with positive thoughts, abundantly prosperous and another sad, lonely and seemingly destined to live forever in scarcity?

It’s not birth order or gender.

It’s not what side of town or family you were born into!

The difference lies in the ability to switch on life-changing powers, switch to the rhythm of wholeness, the rhythm of oneness.

Worry is a useless burden. It can be that seeds of negativity are sown in our subconscious unknowingly. Recognising our programming is the 1st step

There is nothing more satisfying in a relationship that being with a partner who sees you and loves you for who you are.

They understand that your sometimes hurtful behaviour is not because you are mean and unloving, but because you have been wounded in the past and the past still lives within you. As we learn to understand and accept our partner, we learn to understand and love our self even more deeply, this becomes ‘life mastery’. What hinders people in delving deeply into love and the mastery of love, and expressing deep understanding love, is the woundedness they carry.

Owning our story and loving ourself through that process is the bravest thing we will ever do.