Is there anything in your past that you feel excessively embarrassed or ashamed of?
You know there are unresolved issues when at the slightest little upset or misunderstanding you are quickly angered, frustrated, feeling unsettled.
It is vital that we get right down to the roots, and lay out the specific reasons why there are wounds that have yet to be healed.
If there are things which you still haven't forgiven yourself, then now is a good time to make a list of those things, so that you can effectively release the hate held secretly within your heart against yourself.
If you cannot bring emotional hurts into the light, then you're hindering the healing power of the heart from bringing about healing in your mind and emotions.
Emotional wounding is the most common reason that physical healing and wounds of the heart, take so long or fail to fully heal.
Our goal is not to forget a hurtful event or trauma, but to receive healing for that event, where within the chambers of your heart you remove the sting from it. When we look back upon a healed wound, we can see it in a different way, because it has been healed and is no longer painful to look back upon.
The fear of approaching a healing session is the fear of having to tell the story. Not so! It is not necessary to speak out the hurtful story. The answer is in identifying where, what and how and possibly why repeatedly an episode happened, come to an understanding and re-story, his-story, her-story or that which was totally your-story.
Your-Story…mostly the foundation for your story is a DNA memory. In this case we recommend you attend Transforming DNA Memories where intergenerational healing will take place.
Somebody who has been wounded may set high expectations for those around them. They feel that others ought to hold up to unrealistic standards, and are very intolerable to any mistakes made.
Perfectionism, a person who has an emotional wound may also be performance driven. Perhaps they felt like no matter what they did, they could never please an authority figure, and later on in life, that rejection wound causes the person to be a performer to the point where they are never satisfied and burn out by their efforts.
Keys to Healing
The first thing that you want to settle, is any feelings of guilt and shame, especially any feelings that God is somehow disappointed or angry with you. When dealing with a physical wound, what is the first thing you do? Cleanse it from germs so that it can properly heal. When dealing with spiritual or emotional wounds, carrying around baggage (guilt, shame, fear, etc.) makes the healing process much more difficult.
Carrying a burden of shame is a sure way to hinder the inner healing process because it mentally separates us from the delicate softness of the heart. To truly heal damaged emotion we need to settle it in the ancestral history. Stopping repetitive patterns of behaviour.
Closing Message
When you’re feeling anxious you’re actually holding in subconscious thought about the very thing you don’t want. You can give yourself permission to allow yourself to let go of anxiousness and choose to trust your own inner strength. You’ll not only feel better, but you’ll also find you are actually more at ease.
Sylvia Marina