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LOVE YOU WHEN...

Sylvia Marina - Wednesday, October 24, 2018

I’LL LOVE YOU WHEN... written by Sylvia Marina

During childhood, I never knew what real love was.

I was confused with the frequent words of...
I’ll love you when you “do your chores”.
I’ll love you if you do the dishes.
I’ll love you if you bring the wood in for the fire.

... and for the abused child who after another abusive episode was told... “I only did it (abuse) because I love you”.

What do these confusing messages really mean?

It means the child will never trust you. The child will never trust love.
The child isolates a part of their essential self.
They do what I call in our MASTERCLASS Getting The Love You Want, *Heart States... they Self Orphan.
The Self Orphaned Heart is where the individual closes their core energy of love – they stop loving their intimate self. 

Crippled in fear, intimate love and trust is closed – it’s a self-protection mechanism.

I wish I knew THEN what I know NOW...
Through so many years, I never fully understood relationships...
Relationships with people, relationships with money, finances, future...

I knew poor and had a multitude of survival techniques.
I knew abundance - one day I realised negative abundance is clutter.
I learnt the difference between clutter and enough.
I learnt the difference between real love and wrong love.

The future will be the same as the past – unless habits are changed.

Deep inside I knew I had multiple intelligences – I found a way to trust again.
S-l-o-w-l-y, I learnt how to activate the good and better and one day... I realised I could trust again. I began to feel the genius within. I understood this to be entelechy.

I grasped the idea of wholeness, moved my life to wholeness and very soon people began seeking mentorship with me.

I have personal growth experience to share with you in MASTERCLASS Getting The Love You Want – opens the valve for love to find a way again.

Recently I spent an hour with a mentee – she spoke of her life, very soon I realised she knew how to do poor – she had no benchmark as to how to have meaningful relationships or, how to manage money – how to go from scarcely enough and miserable... to enough and to a future of grace and elegance.

*Heart States
In Getting The Love You Want MASTERCLASS there are eight Heart States –Forgotten Heart, Numb Heart, Acceptance Heart, Fulfilled Heart...and more. These all affect your future.

2018© SYLVIA MARINA. ND., A Human Behaviour Specialist
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