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JEALOUSY IS A VICIOUS EMOTION?

Sylvia Marina - Saturday, September 28, 2013

JEALOUSY IS A VICIOUS EMOTION? written by Sylvia Marina

He wept like a small child that has fallen and bruised their little body – but he was a mature age grown man.

The pain was intense as he looked in the mirror-of-life and acknowledged the outcome of his choices. Uncontrolled bursts of anger had damaged the relationship between his-self and those who have a special place in his heart, those he dearly, dearly loves. Loves so deeply that unless he is involved and in control of their every decision he feels a failure.Jealousy is a vicious emotion that can ruin your life without you even knowing.

Jealousy is not isolated to the few. We have experienced the emotion at least once in our lives in spite of agreeing with its imminent destructive nature. Unrecognised, unchecked, jealousy gnaws, as a moth gnaws a garment, jealousy gnaws at one’s mental processes and spiritual vitals.

It can be seen in people of every age and is often associated with resentment, anxiety, helplessness, disgust, anger, inadequacy, deprived, distrust...

Jealousy manifests as anger, fear, insecurity, sad and lonely negative thoughts and feelings. It’s like a ghost constantly whispering, if I can’t have it, neither will you, if I can’t do it, neither will you, if you have it, I want it, you can’t do this, can’t do that. This not only relates to our behaviour towards others, it is a foundation to our own life sabotages.

So when did it all begin... biblical times of Cain and Abel, the Prodigal son story...these stories are recent history, battles for land and boundaries are ancient.

In our life time... possibly with our toys upon the floor and then the discovery and realisation that Mum’s pots and pans and the wooden spoon made a much better sound and reaction. Guess that’s how so many of my cake tins and baking pans were dented and reshaped!

Jealousy is rarely linked to the present situation rather it stems from humiliation, fear and anxieties. Possibly you were not the firstborn or not the ‘hoped for female or male’ and that feeling of not ever being ‘right’ or’ enough’ was carried forward on the day of your birth. Negative emotion along with your enchantment, codes for your physical structure, multiple intelligences and natural abilities were conjoined at the time of conception.

Jealousy instils fear that affects your ability to make positive decisions. Before your life, business or organisation becomes pieces, make peace with your self – be rid of jealousy. If you focus your fury on getting to the root of your feelings, rather than replaying the fears consciously or subconsciously associated with the past, you can stop it from destroying your life. 

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