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INDIFFERENCE & APATHY

Sylvia Marina - Saturday, July 18, 2015

INDIFFERENCE & APATHY written by Sylvia Marina  

Recently I was with a group of people and we were pondering the fourth quadrant, threats, of a business SWOT (strengths, weakness’s, opportunities, threats) analysis.

This analysis is used as a business tool to assess whether a project is viable or whether there are hidden challenges or realities that had not initially been discovered or were new in the business arena. Before commencing projects and at the beginning of each financial year or quarter, it is a valuable exercise.

The above is not my usually beep, but you do know I run business and apathy can sneak in like rust creeping up a down-pipe it silently destroys the purpose for which a project or relationship was created.

In business we need to ensure focus, flexibility and resilience to approach the ever active, “times of change.”

In relationships and day-to-day living do you accept the status quo – current situation, as 'this is a good as it gets' – or must be grateful for small mercies – when was that mantra engrained into your life?

What if “more” was just waiting for you to discover it.

In health, when your internal energy and wellness barometer lacks buzz, vitality and enthusiasm, when sluggishness or pain, lethargy and dispiritedness creeps over your body and you feel less than one hundred percent interest in fully participating in life, most people will intelligently identify the problem, take responsibility and implement steps to return quickly to full energy and wellness.

Is it this simple in relationships?

When energy is not right in your relationships do you take responsibility?

Or when you feel or observe something is not emotionally vibrant, do you sit in apathy hoping something will change?

When we are living in apathy you are compromising your health, your dreams and your potential. You stop positively stimulating your intelligences. In other words, you stop educating yourself. You stop taking responsibility. People hope by some miracle life will just get better.

It doesn’t.

 
Negativity creates indifference and indifference is just one of the emotions that tiptoes and slithers, nit-picks and creeps destroying and stealing the soul of relationships. 

Too frequently the silent behaviour of indifference has its claws into relationships before people realise what is happening and soon indifference has become the new culture, new way of doing and being.

Indifference is sometimes vocal but more often it wordlessly subdues the optimistic dreams of the creative mind, firmly closing emotional doors and destroying what started out as ‘a dream’ relationship.

2015© Sylvia Marina ND., 

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