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IN THE BEGINNING

Sylvia Marina - Thursday, October 16, 2014

IN THE BEGINNING

As you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, have you ever desired that experience somewhere else! Of course, remember the best car you ever bought, your first love, the best employee…and you moved on!

Every relationship has a cycle.
The universe determines who walks into your life, you determine who you let stay.

I recently read, sustaining love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy.

I don’t agree. Love is not difficult. Love just is.

What happens through life, we grow, we have a voice, and sometimes we even become involved in control? This is caustic behavior if what you seek is a joyful relationship.
Anything that is different to your way of thinking can be read as wrong.
That’s a silly interpretation of love, that’s just looking from a different point of perspective.

Different isn’t wrong. Different is exciting, your intelligences are calling ‘what next can I learn’. When you are not open to new learning any challenge, question, or inquiry is interpreted as ‘he/she doesn’t love me anymore.            
If your personal self-love, if your intimate relationship is connected to belonging then what is being challenged is your place in the great tapestry of life.

When your sense of ‘belonging’ is challenged, you begin to withdraw from your partner’s physical touch, you decide you no longer wish to have a personal or business relationship with that person, you begin looking somewhere else. The end of one cycle signifies the beginning of another. Is what you want frequent new relationships, if so you are incessantly seeking new euphoria. This can be an addiction.

Different isn’t wrong, but indifference is destructive.

Kindness, caring, patience, grace are delicate components that entwine and nurture relationships.

When your love is infinite love you are assured in your relationship.
You are open and hold space for meaningful conversation, even with controversial topics your are brave and graceful, you state your need of more education and understanding. You ask ‘tell me more’ and your partner is love and delight in that moment of sharing.

Infinite love is pure, open, vulnerable, precious. 
Sharing, learning and understanding is the journey, here and now with those you love.

2014© Sylvia Marina ND., EXPERT IN HUMAN BEHAVIOUR | SPEAKER                             
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