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HONOUR YOURSELF

Sylvia Marina - Monday, April 28, 2014

HONOUR YOURSELF written by Sylvia Marina

Honour yourself! Your own heart, and not the opinions of others, forms your true honour. By honouring yourself and treating yourself with respect, you set the stage for others to treat you with respect.

Today I had the honour of speaking, not just talking, speaking from my heart. Speaking before an audience of my culture, my yearnings and desires, my story as I see it and my ancestral story as I feel it flow within my veins carrying the memory my purpose and vision for the future.

Every cell in your body has a memory, a memory of the work it is designed to perform. At the time of your birth the memory of your ancestor’s intelligence was gifted in you, you are their grandchild of the now and their purpose on earth becomes your purpose.

In a previous newsletter I wrote is ‘unconditional love possible’? In relationships it is difficult to have unconditional love three hundred and sixty five days a year. To love our own pure self unconditionally is easy, until the critical and doubting mind begins thinking and making comparisons. Comparing ourselves with another is a destructive behaviour and one which rules out any possibility of unconditional love however, to do our purpose, identify and fulfil the vision that was intellectually gifted to us we must close out the critics, the doubts, stop comparing and when you do that you stop your inner anxieties and suffering and begin to fully honour your journey and respect your genius.

I respect the work of Byron Katie –her work consists of four basic questions that will help you to focus – she says...

       All the suffering that goes on inside our minds is not reality. It's just a story we torture  
       ourselves with. She has a simple, completely replicable system for freeing ourselves of the
      thoughts that make us suffer. "All war begins on paper," she explains. You write down your
      stressful thoughts, and then ask yourself the following four questions:

  1. Is it true? (Yes or no. If no, move to 3.)
  2. Can you absolutely know that it is true? (yes or no)
  3. How do you react, what happens, when you believe that thought?
  4. Who would you be without that thought?

Turn the thought around:
The "turnaround" gives you an opportunity to experience the opposite of what you believe. Once you have found one or more turnarounds to your original statement, you are invited to find at least three specific, genuine examples of how each turnaround is true in your life.

When we speak from a place of honour and respect, of conviction and vision the words resonate in our ears and we know in that moment that the only truth to live is the truth within your heart and that flows through your arteries and within your veins.

When you live a life of honour, you honour your-self, you don’t allow others to dictate your actions and words. Often when striving to gain attention whether in a personal or professional relationship we seem to go into a mode of people pleasing, sacrificing and accommodating others needs and wants. In this process we are not honouring our self but somewhat striving to be accepted, noticed, liked or loved.

Accept, not everyone will want to be in a personal, social or professional relationship with you. Don’t be needy and self sacrificing just to be noticed, that’s not honouring your-self. Honouring yourself doesn’t mean being selfish, difficult or coldly indifferent.

Listen to your heart. By honouring yourself and treating yourself and others with respect, love and kindness, you set the stage for others to treat you with respect and you begin ‘living on purpose.’

© Sylvia Marina ND.,
EXPERT IN HUMAN BEHAVIOUR | SPEAKER
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