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HEALING EMOTIONAL WOUNDS

Sylvia Marina - Sunday, January 10, 2016

HEALING EMOTIONAL WOUNDS

During our intensive three-day weekend seminar, I told the emotional story of seeking to heal what I termed the wounds of the soul.

Many years ago I was going through a couple of confidence shattering years and finally I enrolled in an eight day training program specifically designed for health professionals. During these eight days we were to explore the deepest fear/difficult or challenge we were personally experiencing. 


I have always held a belief that to be successful in career one must firstly be successful in their personal life. I had always given myself the challenge of taking responsibility for my decisions and outcomes but this time in my life was horrified at the cruel blow I had been delivered, not just one but like an earthquake there were continuing emotionally shattering tremors– I became what I termed a wounded soul.

To regain my joy I knew I must heal the ‘wounds of the soul’.
I needed to heal MY bruised soul. I was physically sick and had been for many years, I understood emotional wounds are a contributing factor to why physical healing takes so long or fails to fully heal.
My goal was not to forget the hurtful events and trauma’s that had evolved, I needed to be alert and wary of the patterns of my life and the foolishness I had to forgiveness – I was stupidly forgiving another of what I now understand to be patterns of emotional cruelty. 

I couldn’t see it at the time but now that I have healed those emotional wounds I see in a different way and it is no longer painful to look back upon. The inner rawness that was constantly leaking tears has healed.

In my eight-day journey of ‘seeking clarity’ my first seminar partner was Doris – she didn’t believe in “Soul” so I couldn’t possibly be feeling emotionally bruised therefore could not possibly heal my bruised soul because in her belief I didn’t have a Soul.

Lesson: No matter what the ‘word’ or the ‘belief’ of your client always remember, the session is about the client – in this instance, it was about my life, a life that had been disillusioned, hurt, shocked and splintered. And I was having difficulties putting the bits back together again.

Kindness: I don’t recall his name but I do remember the energy. He knew how to hold a space of kindness whereby inner self-inquiry and clarity began to happen and healing commenced. 

Emotional pain has a way of consuming a person’s mind, when active it is hard to feel good about yourself when you have an inner wound screaming to be understood and healed. When we don’t feel  good about our self it manifests in our health and lifestyle affecting decisions, relationships, career and finances.

I’m forever grateful I made a decision to attend that eight-day program. I learnt from the course authors, I learnt from the patience and kindness of Mr Kindness, I learnt more about myself, I experienced love and support of the other seminar participants AND because of Doris, I became a better person, mother, teacher and practitioner.


2016© SYLVIA MARINA. ND. 

Author of “Getting The Love You Want” in 7 steps.

Founder, Professional Kinesiology Association of WA Inc, International Grief Support Foundation Inc. Sylvia is known for her heart-felt approach to personal development, internationally presenting seminars of value. A published writer, twice awarded one of Perth’s 100 Most Influential in small business, Sylvia has a unique approach to connecting people with their purpose transforming their lives for better.

Sylvia can be reached at +61 (0) 412 198 612 

Email: info@sylviamarina.com          http://www.sylviamarina.com

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