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FEAR OF RIDICULE

Sylvia Marina - Sunday, June 14, 2015

FEAR OF RIDICULE!

What is it that separates you from everyone else on this planet?

Belle wrote, I never felt good enough, I wasn’t beautiful, extraordinarily gifted, intelligent nor was I remarkable in any way.

  • I didn’t fit the mould
  • I tried to please other people and I didn’t rock the boat
  • I kept my true feelings to myself
  • I didn’t share my beliefs, thoughts or my perspectives on Life with anyone
  • I created a virtual world in my head of how I wanted to be and how I wanted my life to be. 

Deep in my heart I truly wanted a rich life for myself and my future.

Belle’s story is so true and familiar to me as I work with people from all walks of life, individuals and communities yearning, crying reaching out for a world to draw them into the shelter of the universe’s family – which in theory should be a place of safety and belonging? 

That’s not everybody’s experience!

Many are familiar with my story – a childhood where basic needs were barely met, frequently crying myself to sleep hungry.

I came to a place in life when I realized – the adults in my childhood were responsible for my physical hunger, it was many years before I was to learn how to support my emotions, to learn that my happiness does not have to depend on outside influences.

Intellectually we often know this but deep inside how much do you believe?

To be able to express your thoughts, ideas and desires without fear of ridicule. To know it is safe to display your art, apply your voice in word or song, to have your abilities acknowledged or not acknowledged – to know that the times of silence are not necessarily disparaging, instead like spaces between the notes in music – it is the quiet that makes sense of the noise.

It is our thinking and over-reacting that often puts thoughts of dread and criticism into the silent spaces.

A few minutes ago I was sharing a tasty home cooked meal. As we ate few words were spoken, the silence and occasional lip licking Mmm-murmer spoke much louder that words.

When people can share their thoughts, participate in conversation, express and show their talents and/or new idea without fear of ridicule there will be less depression, less suicide, stronger immune system, healthier life-energy, more vibrancy in business, career, relationships, family even dysfunctional family and a deeper sense of belonging and purpose.

It won’t matter that you were dyslexic or didn’t get a university degree – it will be okay to be brilliant and clever and genuine.

What is it that separates us from everyone else on the planet?

I don’t know about you but for me, I discovered it was ME...and once I learnt how to get the love I wanted and needed, I’m now okay with everyone else on the planet and have valuable life lessons that I would love to share with you.
Now, lets work with you. 

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