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ATTAINING CONNECTEDNESS

Sylvia Marina - Tuesday, December 15, 2015

ATTAINING CONNECTEDNESS written by Sylvia Marina ND.

When you believe in yourself others can’t help but ‘connect and believe in you.

What has happened to human connectedness?
Face-to-face acknowledgement and verbal conversation has lessened the outpouring of emotions and connectedness – it’s minimal. 

We’ve “done” New Age! We are presently making brow-furrows as we educate ourselves with Technology Age. Higher intelligence... Greater than technology ... it is imperative we be alert to the Age of Human Connectedness – developing our selves to be the best possible human enjoying and exploring our individual passion, getting the career and relationships which are satisfying and worthy.

Connectedness is crucial to positive metal health, belongingness, our relationships and personal and professional growth. 

A point to relationships and why so many are fragmenting; people have not learnt the art of connecting with their heart and soul. 

In our youth we sought approval, confused as to how the complete model should be, many felt if they had a measure of perfection, approval from their family and their emerging world of social and career would follow. Too often that didn’t happen.

When people are devoid of love and approval they turn to addiction. 


They yearn belongingness and love that satisfies.
They fear feelings of inequality, espousing a ‘need to please’ mode, being overly self sufficient, excessive spending, extreme-giving in an endeavor to compensate for inadequacies or to seek approval.

What they desire is love, love that satisfies their need.

Dissatisfied people become addicted to ‘needing approval’ and spend countless hours seeking approval either directly or indirectly by comparing how they perceive others to be creating and managing relationships, career, business, finances...and exude excessive desire to please and gain approval. 

Approval from outside sources does not give the love we want – seeking approval behavior, becomes an addiction - addicts are never satisfied. 


Do you know, the opposite of addiction is connection? It’s connection people want. 

Stop the conflict of not being good enough and learn how to connect to your inner sanctum gift of ‘self-approval’.

Until we fully love ourselves there will be difficulties in many areas of our life.

2015© SYLVIA MARINA. ND. Author of “Getting The Love You Want” in 7 steps.

Founder, Professional Kinesiology Association of WA Inc, International Grief Support Foundation Inc. Sylvia is known for her heart-felt approach to personal development, internationally presenting seminars of value. A published writer, twice awarded one of Perth’s 100 Most Influential in small business, Sylvia has a unique approach to connecting people with their purpose transforming their lives for better.
Sylvia can be reached at +61 (0) 412 198 612 

Email: info@sylviamarina.com          http://www.sylviamarina.com

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