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DIFFICULT RELATIONS

Sylvia Marina - Friday, April 09, 2010

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Difficult relationships! ‘WHY AM I THE ONE WHO HAS TO CHANGE?’

written by
SYLVIA MARINA

We often work with people who are in the midst of ‘difficult’. 
Anguishing, clients lament; “I’m not the problem, my partner has the problems and refuses to look at their self and their behaviour” ...  

“ If ‘they’ changed it would solve all our problems!”


Difficult relationships!  The critical observer perceives the other to be the problem.

Readers may not like considering this idea...the idea that, everything you experience is a direct result of your own perception.   No matter what is being said or done to you, your experience is based on your interpretation of what is occurring.

After the squabbling, the ignore-all silent-repose, the slammed door, the indifference, when all has been said and most has been done remember, the only one you are having a relationship with is your-self. You know that from the conversation that happens between your ears!

Don't misunderstand me, there is the relationship you have with him and her and them ... if however, life is not running smoothly look within rather than pointing an accusing finger at 'the others'.

You are the only one who can make your life right for you. No matter what you may see, hear or who you meet, your experience will always be determined by your interpretation and attitude.

 

Your experience of life is entirely up to you. This makes the cause of ◦SELF MASTERY even more significant. When you know the art of self-mastery you are empowered to be a positive influence, to make decisions that have lasting positive effect.

People who embrace the principles of ‘self-mastery’ activate an internal knowing that silently and gently aligns them to their own truth connecting them to their inner wisdom and life harmony. 


Consider this: There have been many times in your lifetime when you have been forced to recognise your truth; remember as a child and your favourite shoes didn’t fit anymore – you couldn’t walk another mile in those moccasins – you were forced to acknowledge that change was necessary. If your relationship is not fulfilling or rewarding, change is necessary.

 

As you identify your purpose and align with your wisdom/truth you prepare yourself for your future relationship(s), it is then you begin to recognise the positive law of attraction bringing the good to you.

 

Most people we work with continue in their present relationship(s), they learn how to manage their responses and change their behavior to positive energy.


Is it time to have better, deeper more fulfilling relationships?


Written by Sylvia Marina
   
Speaker | Author | Mentor

SELF MASTERY effective programs for change authored and directed by Sylvia Marina.

 

HELPING PEOPLE THROUGH TIMES OF CHANGE.

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