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FIND CLARITY & TRUTH IN YOUR LIVING

Sunday, January 08, 2017

FIND CLARITY & TRUTH IN YOUR LIVING
- written by Sylvia Marina

Yesterday as I witnessed the marriage of two beautiful souls, my heart was reminded of the many contracts we make throughout our lifetime.

None so serious as the contract of marriage but non-the-less, in terms of our self- growth and soul journey, all are significant.

Many are just right at the time we commit. And perfect for the lessons our soul needs for deeper understanding and life lessons for our evolvement and transformation.

I often revisit my life contracts to identify whether they are still appropriate, relevant, active, sincere. From the contract with my foster parents – to be a good girl – whatever that meant! And, the wedding vows of long ago, religious vows, promises to friends, business contracts!

There are contracts that begin when we agree with another and then feel committed, when really we were hoping to ‘keep the peace’. 

In my youth I had a beautiful singing voice and when my former mother-in-law discovered my talent announced to me there would be no exhibitionists in this family. Ignorantly or foolishly I obeyed, so many reasons why, possibly the only real reason, I yearned their approval – it didn’t happen.

In terms of contracts, what needs to be deleted, what’s appropriate to be renewed!

The contracts of old, so often the paper is very yellowed, possibly disintegrating and like the paper the contract was scribed on...no longer applicable.

The hundreds of people I have the privilege to work with, so many are consciously and/or unconsciously endeavouring to stay true to something that simply doesn’t exist or foolishly hope that relationships will miraculously change – in these situations sweetness does not happen and we wonder what drains our energy.

In my 30 years specialist experience in behavioural science (exploring the emotional reasons behind physical dysfunctions) is a hidden contributing factor to migraines, fatigue, exhaustion, unexplained illnesses and why people don’t heal is often an attachment to inappropriate contracts.

People are not aware of their contracts and other times people just don’t know what to do, in fear, people emotionally become numb.

One certainty remains, whilst we hold energy to negatively impacting contracts, vows and promises, we are certainly not holding space for the love we so richly deserve. We are not fully living our truth.

Yesterday as I witnessed the marriage of two beautiful souls, I renewed a vow to myself. AND if I can be of significance to you, it is to help you find clarity and truth in your living too.

Sylvia Marina ND.,

Author, Speaker, Human Behaviour Specialist.
Australia 
+61 412 198 612  
Email: info@sylviamarina.com 
          http://www.sylviamarina.com

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PERSONAL GROWTH BELIEF

Wednesday, December 28, 2016

PERSONAL GROWTH BELIEF written by Sylvia Marina

I, acknowledge myself as a free thinker, a sage choosing to observe and learn from the actualities of the world and seasons around us.


Why I wrote those words today, I wonder, they follow a year of deep connection to the spiritual essence of my life.  

Every year, every day, is about change. This year our lives have been rocked at the many losses, loves and lives that have been guiding lights and influential in activating change... family, friends, mentors, greats, those whose voice has been in our lives by way of music, song, arts, leaders, justice...

It became a year of conscious uncertainty. One aspect rang clear; the privilege of standing on the shoulders of the greats. Those who have walked this earth’s seasons and circumstances either with us, or have been a conscious or unconscious influence in our life and life lessons!

Mysteriously, silently... we are more than our time here on earth, we are the sum of our ancestors. Their desires, drive and discovery etched in our genes, we are their future generation, we are the future they dreamed of. They gifted us intelligences, wisdom and knowing.


Individually how well are we doing.

If you need of a mentor, someone to communicate and spiritually walk with you, someone to help you access and activate your intelligences, I am here for you.

I have been through deep soul searching this year – urged on by the truth I am still amongst the living and there is a reason to this. I have more work to do and thank you for reaching out to the ‘life change’ work I offer.

My work has changed throughout the years and if you attended my courses in former times, you will discover a newer depth and dimension has evolved. 

Two weeks ago I purchased a gift for a friend. It was a plant in a lovely container. The horticulturalist said, this plant will grow to it’s environment, if you want it small leave it in this little pot, if you want it to grow larger put it into a larger environment, don’t put it in the open garden or it will go wild. 


So significant to the person I was buying for and a thoughtful lesson for me. 

The environment we live in can restrict our personal growth to the point we think we know-it-all, because that’s the size of our environment, when actually we have not expanded beyond our self-ideas and beliefs, family and social limitations – we need to expand our environment.

Sylvia Marina ND.,
Author, Speaker, Human Behaviour Specialist.
Australia  +61 412 198 612  
Email: info@sylviamarina.com 
http://www.sylviamarina.com

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LIVING MY DREAM

Wednesday, December 14, 2016

LIVING MY DREAM – written by Sylvia Marina ND.

Tis the season to be jolly – my wish for everyone is that you know the deep experience of joy in your hearts. 

Recently returning from Scandinavia, I had the deepest happiness, my voice was humming with song as my almost silent speeding train glided through the magnificent snow covered lands of Norway. I was internally smiling with delight. 


Previous I had been teaching in Denmark and then to a new class in Norway – new friendships, and memorable blesSings as I was treated to flavoursome North Atlantic ocean foods, breads, cheeses, vegetables and fruits that extra cold climates produce.

My warmly lined boots (a gift from my friends in Krasnoyarsk in Russia) kept my feet warm and dry. 


Many times I give myself an inner smile of gratitude, me the native welfare child who dreamed of speaking to audiences all over the world! Through invitations, I’m privileged to be living my dream. 

I encourage you, if you have not fully realised your dreams yet. If you have capabilities still to be expanded and your purpose to be fulfilled, hold your vision and every course you attend, every lesson you learn ask yourself this question – does this action lead me closer to fulfilling my purpose.

Decide then and there to make a decision.

Since returning home to West Australia, it is my privileged to be included to attend the grandchildren’s end of year concerts. To see their joy performing for their families! It certainly leaves ‘our spirit’s bright’ as we sing our way home again.

To each of you, whether you are with family, with friends or alone - I wish you peace and happiness. Take time to be grateful for all that you have. Breathe and love YOU...really love YOU.

Life with its miracles never ceases to amaze me. In all your remembrances of our time together, I am with you. Always In Love...  Sylvia 

About Sylvia Marina ND., A keynote speaker and workshop leader, Sylvia engages audiences weaving her knowledge of what makes life and relationships successful. 

I divide my business life between event speaking, international workshops and private clients. My signature programs relate to resolving trans-generational trauma; initially written for cancer patients, where I met business executives who invited me to mentor them and to help them ‘heal their lives’. 

Frequently referred to as the Mentors, mentor, Sylvia’s omnipresent guiding light and influence remains with you.

2017 Sylvia is expanding her Heart Leaders Academy to online - weekly meditations and inspirations. Email your interest to: info@sylviamarina.com 

Australia  +61 412 198 612  

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Getting The Love You Really Want

Wednesday, November 09, 2016

Getting The Love You Really, Really Want.

What we truly yearn is choice and freedom. 

For many, any attempt to achieve freedom appears massively ineffective, treacherous, difficult and a Cinderella ‘cinders to the throne’, fairy tale.

Let’s think sensibly! 

Before we emerged into this physical world we had an intimate relationship with the feminine energy. From the time of conception you were physically and emotionally connected to Mother. 

Connection is a fundamental human need. 

When we don’t feel connected, we look to others for approval. But the human quest often involves people pleasing, which if taken to extreme is a destructive energy.  

Dissatisfied people become addicted to ‘needing approval’ and spend countless hours either directly or indirectly seeking. Seekers compare themselves against how they perceive others to be in relationships, career, business and finances. 

Comparing is a destructive element in relationships. Approval from outside sources does not give us the love we want. It is normal to offer and receive approval, but if you feel dissatisfied with how your efforts to please are being rewarded, there is inner work to do. 

Disappointment, dissatisfaction, loneliness is mostly a trans generational trauma. In the study of Epigenetics, we see how trauma is carried through family genes into future generations. Every time this occurs we are slammed into ‘no choice’ again.

Every time you feel you are misunderstood, not considered, overlooked, you are catapulted into feeling ‘no choice’, and helpless.

You wonder why the intensity of emotion, logically you know you can manage your life better, BUT an explosion of emotion is ready to erupt. You either burst out and express, and later regret your behaviour OR you swallow, clench your teeth and hold the emotion in...both behaviours have destructive consequences.

Why does this intensity and force happen? 

Unresolved trans generational trauma is actively locked in your cellular memory. 

Dysfunction in previous generations can be showing up in reoccurring health issues, no matter how hard you have tried to change; habits, behaviour, addiction. 

Most therapies say they can clear these trauma’s, they don’t. I have more than thirty years research working with private clients and from this experience created programs that make permanent change.

In Transforming DNA Memories you learn how to gently work through the ages of trans generational trauma, changing the energy, creating a new and possible (not fairy tale) reality.

My quest is to assist you to have more love, joy and freedom in your life, everyday. 

2016© SYLVIA MARINA. ND. 

Speaker & Human Behaviour Specialist
T: +61 (0) 412 198 612 

E: info@sylviamarina.com         
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IT IS A BEAUTIFUL WORLD

Sunday, October 02, 2016

IT IS A BEAUTIFUL WORLD – with Sylvia Marina ND

Today there are moments when I stare into space, it is the anniversary of when I began my new life – or rather when I left the old life behind. 

So much of that old life is still with me.

Graciously it formed the foundation of who I became.

This weekend is the anniversary of the first time I arrived in Australia. 

Till then my entire life was in the South Island of New Zealand.

Emotions in my belly were doing cartwheels I recall.  The excitement of an unknown future, clouded by the emotions of leaving behind the life I knew was scary. 

I had been charged by one of the elders of our community to be a worthy ambassador – I never truly knew the depth of that responsibility but I do know his words and the energy they carried etched a message into my awareness, associated with being a responsible, good citizen, honest. 

If the young woman of that first weekend in October 1966 had known how the future would unfold, would I have taken that step into the unknown. Possibly!

The frequency of travel now makes that DC-10 trans Tasman flight appear quite trivial. I felt very small, prepared? – well my suitcase was loaded and at the same time, emotionally very unprepared for the unknown.

This was my time to broaden my horizons, extent my awareness and begin my ‘stand alone’ journey.  

To stand-alone means to be responsible for all your outcomes - to actually be alone is a choice.

It was a Saturday evening when I arrived in Sydney, Australia.  Before landing, the plane circled the Sydney Harbour Bridge – an awesome structure spanning Sydney harbour. Soon I recognised the difference between nervous excitement and terrified – I now had what people term as ‘butterflies in my belly’ but it seemed more like a huge flock of seagulls swarming over the remnants of some-ones fish and chips.

With my courage fading, bewildered as to whether I had made a dreadful mistake, we were it seemed, herded into immigration and soon I heard the rubber stamp make its mark in my shiny new passport.

One more step and I would be on Australian soil - I pulled up my drooping shoulders, and with my posture tall I stepped into Australia.

Both Australia and New Zealand have been good to me – one has to grow-up somewhere!

And today these words from Desiderata resonate clearly as I step into my every tomorrow.

Desiderata: Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story... be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labours and aspirations in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams; it is still a beautiful world. 

2016© SYLVIA MARINA. ND.
Speaker & Human Behaviour Specialist


T: +61 (0) 412 198 612 

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LOVE IS CRITICAL

Monday, August 29, 2016

LOVE IS CRITICAL

Love is as critical to the mind and body as oxygen. It’s not negotiable.

I have just presented my four-day “Love” program where the class closing comments included, I now have a new landscape to work with... what happens in the lives of people when the landscape of love gets blurred?

In my years of experience working with people from all walks of life, persuasions and cultures, many accept what I note as abusive behaviours because they have a mantra that affirms to them...some love is better than no love. 

Fulfilling love is a natural anti depressant. The less love you have the more likely you are to feel depressed. Feeling empty, unfulfilled, desolate, it’s hard for people to describe what is missing – they don’t identify or understand their expectations but have an idea, expectations are not being met.

Most depressed people don’t love their self and they do not feel loved by others. They hold onto what they have for fear of being alone. 

Sadly they are alone. 

I must say, most people acknowledge they have an intellectual knowing that they are loved, the problem is they don’t feel it.

Isolated in loneliness, people who don’t feel loved don’t fully participate in relationships, friendships or socially. They become self-focused, making their-self less attractive to others, they are deprive of opportunities to learn new skills for attracting love.

There is a myth that love just happens. 

Actually there are times when it does. Hold a newborn babe and soon you feel the feeling of connectedness and you spontaneously place a tender kiss on the forehead of the little one, at the same time your subconscious whispers to your inner self, I love the way I feel about me when I’m with you. 

For those who had no family role model as to what love is or can be, they gathered notions about love, mostly from TV, movies and songs... the rest has been left to chance.

In the big grown-ups world, when that tenderness has left the relationships, or sadly never been there... depression happens and the depressed sit around waiting for someone to love them unaware that to get love and to keep love there are behaviours to learn and habits to unlearn. What does this mean? 

After the honeymoon...after the initially flurry has faded, when the ideal is not being met, many begin to show their underside by demanding and controlling as to their expectation of what an ideal relationship should be. Interesting when I ask had the ideal relationship conversation ever happened the answer is NO or I didn’t know what I really wanted till I wasn’t feeling loved. And that’s when the nagging, complaining, crying, tantrums and childish behaviours play out again. And if you don’t feel listened to at home, you wait for an audience in the hope of shaming the other(s). 

Or opposites happen. Silence. What’s the matter?...nothing!
Or behind closed door, physical abuse happens stealing another’s dreams, self-worth and human rights of safety, belonging and freedom.

It is not only possible but necessary to change one’s approach to love and to prevent depression. Whether you are in a relationship with another or learning how to love yourself better more fully, the following steps when embraced will bring more love into your life.

Learn to

  • Communicate   
  • Listen to understand – mostly we listen to reply
  • Respect, yourself and each other
  • Value. Know YOUR values
  • Goals, individual and shared goals

One of the places where people lack clarity is choosing their top values. These are non negotiable. Example: 

  • Kindness
  • Truthfulness
  • Respect
  • Appreciation 
  • Time

Love is a best anti depressant – and here is a do not. Don’t confuse love with sex – sex is not the complete answer, love is.

2016© SYLVIA MARINA. ND. 

Speaker & Human Behaviour Specialist

T: +61 (0) 412 198 612 

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REPLENISH YOUR SOUL

Thursday, July 07, 2016

REPLENISH YOUR SOUL written by Sylvia Marina ND.


Have you ever come to a point in your life journey when you feel a tad burnt out?
Creativity flown out the window to some, seems like, irretrievable destination – you feel like the words of that old song is being relived in your life...’there’s a hole in the bucket dear henry, dear henry’... it continues ... ‘with what shall I fix it dear henry, dear henry’... with what?


What do you do to revive your sinking spirit, rejuvenate your creativity, replenish your physical exhaustion and put sparkle back into your life? I can tell you from personal experience sleep supports but does not cure fatigue, food and chattels do not provide fulfilment and answers to your emotional and spiritual questions and desires.


Me! I go to the mountains and the lakes. I take time to connect to the sky in all her many phases from dawn through to dawn again – I gaze at the night sky ... not just a look, but a gaze, a contemplation and connectedness till I feel a gratitude for those generations before us who trusted the stars to guide their purpose. I relink to my own trust centre.


I feel the earth, really connect to the earth...own her, attune to her, feel her support, gain a deeper understanding of our ancestor’s footprints and their story.


Their story is within you...within your DNA* memory. 


The reason we have so many yearnings and questions, they come from the voices of our ancestors, located in our DNA and spiritual remembering. Those of you who follow my writings will remember when I speak of spiritual I’m not talking religion.

Now back to the ancestors, forever I have yearned to know and understand their stories. 


I feel my responsibility to continue the dream of my ancestors. 


Recently as I stood on the shores of magnificent snow fed lakes, I felt memories with my feminine sacral awakening – drawing me closer to trust my inner knowing.


And then transported to the feet on my ancestral mountain (I’d love to physically take you on this spiritual renewal journey) where a group of women met for several days to learn more within the scope of Transforming DNA Memories. We quickly learnt it doesn’t matter the physical age – we were from early thirties to late eighties in terms of age – what matters is we find answers to our yearning questions, to gain understanding to situations that contribute to our physical and emotional pain. 


It was my privilege to guide these women to their truth. Through love and gentleness, tears and laughter, we accessed keys to unlock hidden knowledge, wisdom and understanding to awaken the dreams our ancestors dreamt for us so we may extinguish the pain and fatigue of the past and continue our ancestors dream to make this world a better place for all future generations.


I’ve taken this spiritual journey many times. 


Last month, the month of June I felt permission from Great Spirit energy to invite you to join me in 2017 on a ten day spiritual renewal, awakening the unfulfilled dreams you have locked in your DNA – it is these journeys that transfer me to my next level of awareness, confidence and capability.


* DNA. Deoxyribonucleic acid, a self-replicating material which is present in nearly all living organisms as the main constituent of chromosomes.
It is the carrier of genetic information.



2016© SYLVIA MARINA. ND.
Speaker & Human Behaviour Specialist


T: +61 (0) 412 198 612 

E: info@sylviamarina.com         
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TURN ON YOUR BEST GENES

Friday, June 10, 2016

TURN ON YOUR BEST GENES Written by Sylvia Marina ND.

You can hoard more useless things than junk – in your mind! 

According to my South Australia speaker colleague, Colin Pearce. 

The choices we make over the course of a lifetime can actually alter the way some of your genes express. We can actually increase our happiness by turning "on" the right genes. 

My experience of working with clients for more than 30 years means I’ve interviewed and conversed with many people carrying habits and addictions – it’s debilitating and it’s becoming more common. 

People are missing the true joy of life. 

This expresses itself in us having full lives but not spiritually rewarding lives. Please understand that when I say spiritual I am not referring to religion.

People have full lives, busy lives, lives on a rotating timetable (known as the rat in the wheel syndrome), doing, doing, revolving but not evolving. Constantly adding more and more to our daily lives but not actually accomplishing, not experiencing personal growth or fulfilling life’s purpose – to be wisdom.

Too many become hoarders of doing, hoarders of projects, hoarders of dreams... 

Colin says...hoarding starts small and can build to become a serious disorder. None of the notorious hoarders went out one day and bought 9 tonnes of assorted junk to bring home. They built up their disorder over years, probably starting with a wardrobe of clothes or a drawer of pens!

Ouch, the pens...!! Who has the Bower Bird approach – bringing home brightly colored objects to line the nest? The bachelor Bower Bird does this to attract a mate – I wonder why humans have adopted this practice? I know...some of the pens were gifts, but many have been ‘intently taken by... hoarders’.

Many of my readers have been following my work, my personal self-growth and professional development. I’ve been a gatherer, or rather a reluctance to ‘throw out’ – it’s easy to make excuses – deprived childhood...da-de-daa – it can become an endless mantra – over the years I’ve jest - I didn’t inherited the housework gene.

The truth exists in this statement... the choices we make over the course of a lifetime can actually alter the way some of our genes express.

The good news is... we can re-program ourselves.

I’ve worked successfully with myself and hundreds of clients to specifically reprogram to reduce stress, enhance health, improve mood, gain clarity and vitality.

At the interface of science, spirituality and conscious evolution...

You can actually change habits and addictions.
You can increase happiness by “turning on” the right genes.

You can re-direct unconscious neurological gene expression set points and change them into positive accomplishment.

Often we walk the pathways of our mind, only to re-discover what we already know – consider how life betterment can happen when you identify and discard patterns of behavior that have been limiting your life, simply because you were not aware of their presence.

I promise you, life is a mind-expanding adventure – if you allow!

2016© SYLVIA MARINA. ND. 

Human Behaviour Specialist & Speaker

T: +61 (0) 412 198 612 

E: info@sylviamarina.com         
W:http://www.sylviamarina.com

2016 Leader of Influence Award Within Perth's Small Business Community.


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HOW IMPORTANT IS FREEDOM TO YOU?

Wednesday, May 11, 2016

HOW IMPORTANT IS FREEDOM TO YOU? Written by Sylvia Marina ND.

To me.. it is everything! And yet as I re-view my life, I can see times when the younger self didn’t think so positively about the “me”.

Perhaps it was because I didn’t understand awesome, brilliant, true happiness and love. In reality, I didn’t trust.

I didn’t trust love...didn’t know what love was or what it could be.

Locked in an emotional cage of “black and white’, “can and cannot”, “have and have-nots” we build a view of the world and more tragic ... we build a view of our role in our fixed tidbit of the world – I guess that’s called restricted viewing – I had a cheap seat like that once at the ballet!

The consequence of restricted viewing?.. Our miniature view becomes to us the whole picture – our complete world...till we begin wondering, where are those other noises coming from – perhaps there is more beyond ‘the view’.

To pries the door, the emotional door... is to become an opportunist ... or when the cage door is left ajar for a moment...make a run.

Now the question - away from or towards...

If we run from, we approach the future with fear!

When we run to...


We trust our self.
We allow our intuition to take us.

We trust the future will support us.

Do you allow yourself to trust – if trust were another word for love, how much are you allowing. Are you waiting for permission to be released from your cage? If so who will give that permission?

If you are waiting for permission from another – is this person the holder of the key to your cage...have you checked, is your cage actually locked or do you just think it is.

Remember the story of the grown elephant with the little chain on his leg – it was put there when the elephant was an infant elephant. Young elephant learnt the chain was too heavy, too attached, restrictive...elephant learnt the rules and for-ever-more caged to a chain, living a life of restrictions, a life devised for another’s pleasure! Had the cage not deadened the voice of intuition, grown-up elephant could absolutely break free.

The question then...break free to where? 

Is this question the reason why many return to abusive and violent domestic life, choosing to live in less than ideal conditions, work a lesser job for lesser pay than their true worth.

Is it because the cage provides shelter, food and water and the sometimes attention. 

Here is my little toot to you today...

If that thing called INTUITION were your soul...could you trust it?
If that thing called LOVE were self-love... can you embrace it?

My wish for you...I wish you happiness.

2016© SYLVIA MARINA. ND. 

Human Behaviour Specialist & Speaker

Sylvia can be reached at +61 (0) 412 198 612 

Email: info@sylviamarina.com          http://www.sylviamarina.com

2016 Leader of Influence Award Within Perth's Small Business Community.


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Enabling people to live free from emotional pain and trauma.

LIVING THE DREAM

Monday, April 18, 2016

LIVING THE DREAM written by Sylvia Marina ND.

There are times in life when the emotion you feel in your heart just can’t find the words that adequately express what you desire to say.

Supporting friends through a period of dark grief, David & I have just journeyed through a time when it seemed a squillion years of life bundled into one week. I frequently remind myself, life is one moment at a time. 

In times of extreme pressure following loss of life, loss of physical companionship and friendship, remember to breathe. 

Each moment passes and with a new breath you are preparing your self for the next moment. What that next moment will be we never know, however just by purposefully breathing, we have renewed strength.

I’m honoured to say, that through this week of emotions, I was kindly referred to as the ‘heart-mother’. If my role was to guide those who were hurting so deeply back to love, self-kindness and stability then my support and skills had value.

Through this time of distress, during the day I was teaching a beautiful program Transforming DNA Memories. Frequently from the participants I heard their words of desire...love, freedom, deserving, allowing, actively participating, vision, being, wisdom, belonging...

Early on one of those mornings, just after my quiet meditation I read the following words from an unknown author... it seems fitting to share them with you.

If you ever fall in love....
Fall in love with someone who wants to know your favourite colour and not just how you like your coffee.

Fall in love with someone who loves the way you laugh and would do absolutely anything to hear it.

Fall in love with someone who puts their head on your chest just to hear your heart beat.

Fall in love with someone who kisses you because they love to, not because they’re hoping for a favour in return.

Fall in love with someone who is proud to show you off to everyone they know.

Fall in love with someone who questions why you were afraid to fall in love in the first place.

Fall in love with someone who would never want to hurt you.

Fall in love with someone who falls in love with your flaws and thinks you are perfect just the way you are.

Fall in love with someone who knows that you are the one they would love to wake up to each day.

And I add...Fall in love with someone who fits your destiny, not your history. Day by day our role is to prepare our self for our future, our future love, and future life. 

In Transforming DNA Memories we waken the dreams that our ancestors dreamt for us and continue their dream of making this world a better place for all of our future generations.

2016© SYLVIA MARINA. ND.
Human Behaviour Specialist & Speaker

Sylvia can be reached at +61 (0) 412 198 612 

Email: info@sylviamarina.com          http://www.sylviamarina.com

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