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Resolve Negative Habits

Monday, January 14, 2019

Resolve Negative Habits

Activate 100% of brain capacity by eliminating negative habits.

Habits are those actions that we do automatically without thinking about them. These mental impulses are lodged in our subconscious brain and have been growing through repetition, although many habits are positive, negative habits do not fully activate our physical and mental capacity.

The purpose of habit is to save energy to the brain.
When faced with a certain situation, habit automatically activates a series of neural networks that trigger action. In this way, our conscious brain does not have to reprocess all the information or make decisions.

Through habits in our subconscious brain we move from action to reaction.

Eliminating negative habits and incorporating positive habits is an intelligent way to use the ‘power of attraction’, since in this way we will be automatically attracting positive events into our lives.

The main step of all change is to become aware.
This means realizing that something is not right and must be changed.

To undertake change one must have a clear and objective view of the facts.
Here is a plan of action for you. Identify current habits: Make a list of all the habits you repeat day after day.
Divide them into two columns with their corresponding classification.

Rate positive and negative habits: What does each bad habit satisfy?
For example, someone who smokes too much usually does so to calm anxiety. The same can happen with the one who eats too much or too little, or with the alcohol - over talking, over compensating, habitually late, speeding, critical, excessive shopping, to list a few.
List to identify how your bad habit is trying to help or support you.

Once the beneficial intention has been identified, you can replace that bad habit with a positive one that replaces that intention. For example, the habit of going for a walk in the open air, or perhaps the habit of meditating, can be very helpful in calming anxiety.

Changes in habits often require a great deal of energy on our part until they are in place. To this end, it is advisable to change one habit at a time and, when it is successfully incorporated, move on to the next.

Think about why you want to change a habit or incorporate a new one, there are specific and personal reasons that you must have well identified.

The question you need to ask yourself is, "How will this habit help me progress?

Quote:
“Change either leads us closer to or further from our goals.” ~ Sylvia Marina

For positive change to happen! It is not enough to want... much less to need... you have to really want. This will keep your motivation level higher. It may be useful to visualize yourself with your acquired habit and how it benefits you. This process will help you keep the flame of desire burning.

Every habit is gained through repetition. If we do the same action every day in certain situations, it may be that at first we have a hard time assimilating it, but over time it will be incorporated into our subconscious and, once there, everything will be easier.

Forever, Sylvia Marina

Sylvia Marina is an Author, Speaker, Human Behaviour Specialist.
Personal development, teaching, training, individual mentoring, speaking engagements.

Join her training programs www.sylviamarina.com/calendar

Sylvia works with people from all walks of life and stages of evolvement, guiding each to activate their genius within. Mentoring Face-to-Face, Skype or Zoom.

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HEAL EMOTIONAL WOUNDS

Saturday, December 29, 2018

HEAL EMOTIONAL WOUNDS

Holding a trauma can be an obstacle to achieving our goals and being happy. Anyone in your life can suffer a trauma, because of an event that affects you in a certain way and that constantly generates negative memories of fear, sadness or shame.

It is necessary to face it and overcome it as soon as possible; otherwise it will harm you throughout your life and eventually change your personality limiting your life choices.

What is trauma?
A trauma is a sensory or/and emotional wound, suffered by some people after living an event or abusive stage in their life, which affects them dramatically, causing pain and emotional distress.These negative events leave their mark on the person who suffers them, modify their personality, and affect their attitude and future behavior in similar situations.

Unless resolved, for-ever-after people try to avoid or flee from these situations as a defense mechanism, not having been able to assimilate it psychically, manage it emotionally, forgive it spiritually, nor having adapted to the new situation.

Trauma can occur at any age. However, in childhood and adolescence, people are more vulnerable and are more strongly marked by what happens to them. At this age, one does not have a defined personality, and one has little capacity to respond to events that have a negative influence on people.

Many children have to face the death or divorce of their parents, others are victims of abuse, rejection, indifference, protection, lack of communication. Each one will be affected in a different way, but having help and support to solve the problems contributes to overcoming them.

Those who suffer trauma try to forget them and not remember them. In this case, we are dealing with people who have suffered an emotional trauma and have not managed to overcome it; they have not yet assumed their past or fully resumed their future.

Other times it happens that the trauma is so strong, that the person cannot remember it or has empty spaces in their memory, which prevents them/ourself from finding out what really happened. Traumas hidden in the unconscious, do not allow people to live peacefully or proceed in developing all of their potential. It is not necessary for the exact moment of trauma to be recalled in order to stop the effect. In our work we identify the emotions associated with the trauma. The trauma will then heal and we are free to develop all our intelligences.

M.E.Henne, Norway. Attended Sylvia Marina’s class. Her comment “Digging Deep and Rising High”. A beautiful place to begin the new-year goals of life!

© Sylvia Marina is an Author, Speaker, Human Behaviour Specialist.
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TIME

Monday, December 17, 2018

 

TIME - written by Sylvia Marina

A day, a week, a year...!

Of course you changed. You grew up while you were away. You learnt to think for yourself, make decisions, be responsible for your choices and accountable for the outcomes. It is called experience. While you were away, you also began to forge a path towards your dreams, discover your strengths, your true-life purpose... not the path others wanted you to take.

If you were similar to me, when I returned to my “teen-years” town, I did not fit into the life I had once known..

Friends had made new friends, got married, had children, found new careers, moved house and neighborhood, built different paths into social, cultural, community or business circles and that part of their life had taken on a life of its own ... and I could not be fully included in that part of their lives anyway ... as I did...you feel slightly excluded.

Most people in their lifetime have ‘an awakening’.

Imagine the butterfly that leaves the cocoon community as a caterpillar and one day flies in and says, ‘hello, I’m the one you called caterpillar! Bewilderment would set in as there is no resemblance to its old self ... caterpillar developed.

It’s not possible for things to be like it was. In reality, it’s not possible to turn back time! Once caterpillar transformed, dried its wings and revealed its true self, not a hint of the former self was evident.
The hidden DNA colors unfolded, it has a new life now.

As time moves forward we cannot be held captive to our past or like an undeveloped caterpillar we emotionally shrivel and die.
By nature’s design we grow to evolve.

A butterfly does not see all of its own colors, but we the observer who admire its entirety as it silently enters and leaves our field of vision, we often wish it would stay a little longer. The butterfly leaves our physical space – it’s influence remains with us – we remember its “presence”.

Our lives walk simultaneously across the landscape of time, learning changing, trusting and growing, together.
It has been my privilege to experience your aura this year – either through our newsletter, social media or to physically be in presence together.

Wishing you wellness, happiness and the experience of absolute joy.
As you breathe another breath remember, my love is with you.

Forever, Sylvia Marina

Sylvia Marina is an Author, Speaker, Human Behaviour Specialist.
Personal development, teaching, training, individual mentoring, speaking engagements. Working with people from all walks of life and stages of evolvement, guiding each to activate their genius within.
Face-to-Face, Skype or Zoom.

+61(0) 412 198 612 or info@sylviamarina.com | www.sylviamarina.com

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DEEP BREATHING CAN HELP YOU RELIEVE STRESS

Monday, November 12, 2018

DEEP BREATHING CAN HELP YOU RELIEVE STRESS
- written by Sylvia Marina

"The time you want the map ... is before you enter the woods." ~ Brendon Burchard

If you ever feel stressed or frustrated with life’s pressures, decision making, through times of change, grief or disappointment, physical or emotional pain – use this skill. 

Deep breathing, otherwise known as diaphragmatic breathing, has been practiced by Yoga masters and Spiritual teachers for centuries.

There is an art to this calming skill.

It is easy to learn.

  1. Either lie down or sit upright with feet flat on the floor
  2. Place your hands on your diaphragm allow the tips of your middle fingers to touch each other.
  3. Breathe out – exhale
  4. Breathe in deeply and slowly. Focus on drawing your breath from your nose, through your lungs to diaphragm. Keep your shoulders still.
  5. Slowly exhale
  6. Breathe in deeply. Slowly count to ten.
  7. Practice this skill twice a day. If you find it difficult, be patient. Once you master deep breathing you will notice that when you use it for a specific purpose, unnecessary or excessive thoughts and patterns that no longer serve you, will fade away.

If you do this exercise in front of a mirror you will begin to notice the gap between your fingertips expanding. This means you are increasing your breathing capacity.

If you are already a diaphragmatic breather, congratulations!
If you are a shallow breather, practicing this exercise daily will make a difference in your life.

If you are faced with a medical procedure, the above natural exercise is a valuable skill to have ready, in your ‘self help’ tool kit.

Sylvia Marina
Helping You Through Times Of Change.

To all who email us, thank you. We love hearing from you.

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LOVE YOU WHEN...

Wednesday, October 24, 2018

I’LL LOVE YOU WHEN... written by Sylvia Marina

During childhood, I never knew what real love was.

I was confused with the frequent words of...
I’ll love you when you “do your chores”.
I’ll love you if you do the dishes.
I’ll love you if you bring the wood in for the fire.

... and for the abused child who after another abusive episode was told... “I only did it (abuse) because I love you”.

What do these confusing messages really mean?

It means the child will never trust you. The child will never trust love.
The child isolates a part of their essential self.
They do what I call in our MASTERCLASS Getting The Love You Want, *Heart States... they Self Orphan.
The Self Orphaned Heart is where the individual closes their core energy of love – they stop loving their intimate self. 

Crippled in fear, intimate love and trust is closed – it’s a self-protection mechanism.

I wish I knew THEN what I know NOW...
Through so many years, I never fully understood relationships...
Relationships with people, relationships with money, finances, future...

I knew poor and had a multitude of survival techniques.
I knew abundance - one day I realised negative abundance is clutter.
I learnt the difference between clutter and enough.
I learnt the difference between real love and wrong love.

The future will be the same as the past – unless habits are changed.

Deep inside I knew I had multiple intelligences – I found a way to trust again.
S-l-o-w-l-y, I learnt how to activate the good and better and one day... I realised I could trust again. I began to feel the genius within. I understood this to be entelechy.

I grasped the idea of wholeness, moved my life to wholeness and very soon people began seeking mentorship with me.

I have personal growth experience to share with you in MASTERCLASS Getting The Love You Want – opens the valve for love to find a way again.

Recently I spent an hour with a mentee – she spoke of her life, very soon I realised she knew how to do poor – she had no benchmark as to how to have meaningful relationships or, how to manage money – how to go from scarcely enough and miserable... to enough and to a future of grace and elegance.

*Heart States
In Getting The Love You Want MASTERCLASS there are eight Heart States –Forgotten Heart, Numb Heart, Acceptance Heart, Fulfilled Heart...and more. These all affect your future.

2018© SYLVIA MARINA. ND., A Human Behaviour Specialist
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HAPPINESS IS TIMELESS

Sunday, October 07, 2018

 

HAPPINESS IS TIMELESS - written by Sylvia Marina

“Why are you always happy” she asked.

I love happiness, I feel its gentleness, I feel its depth and loveliness.
I’m always eager to explore into what happiness sees - light and colour, shadows, depth and the vastness of horizons, nature and life, and expressions of love and connectedness.

I never want to miss the experience what happiness truly feels in laughter and smiles, passive and extreme, sweaty, salivating, deep dimensions, expansiveness, hearty laughter, and pensive quiet spaces.

I create situations to specifically expand into the art of active listening and functioning conversation, giving and loving, kindness and effectual matters of the human spirit. This may seem indulgent, to me it is education and whatever expands my understanding of creating the possible human brings happiness to me.
Happiness understands life.
Happiness is heaven on earth.

“Why are you always happy” she asked.
I wondered why she asked that poignant question!
The question seemed to come from an impulsive thought.
I observed anxiety...and then I noticed... the slumped body posture, an awkward twist of the mouth and distortion to the face – the dear soul was trapped in uncertainty.

Uncertainty leads to self-doubt and insecurity. When uncertainty is active people doubt their self and their safety.
I include safety because I’ve noticed people who doubt their self, lock themselves into a dimension where emotionally they think they feel safe. Locked in an imaginary place of safety, freedom is locked out, emotional and sadly physical freedom too.
It’s desperate survival.

It would be miserable...to be the observer of happiness and not feel it!
To be in the same room and moment as happiness and not participate, that’s despondent.
Repetitive despondency leads to isolation and depression.

Happiness is timeless – to help someone to feel safe again, to possibly begin to live freely again, here are my five steps to happiness:

  1. Resolve burdens
  2. Know your purpose
  3. Update your gratitude’s
  4. Focus your intention
  5. Fully participate in Your-Life

A Human Behaviour Specialist, Sylvia Marina has committed her life to the multi dimensional aspects of what depletes the human spirit. In her workshops she generously gives you tools to create and live the life you desire. Sylvia presents a variety of personal growth workshops. The VISION BOARD PURPOSE ALIGNMENT workshop is on in Perth, West Australia December 27 & 28.

#HappinessNow #KnowYourPurpose #AlwaysSeekTruth.

2018© SYLVIA MARINA. ND., A Human Behaviour Specialist 

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DELIBERATE DISTORTED TRUTH is a HUMAN CRUELTY

Thursday, September 06, 2018

DELIBERATE DISTORTED TRUTH is a HUMAN CRUELTY – written by Sylvia Marina

There have possibly always been distortions of truth...

Consider the example of this international children's game.
Players form a line, and the first player comes up with a message and whispers it to the ear of the second and subsequent people in the line. When the last player is reached, they announce the message they heard to the entire group. The first person then compares the original message with the final version.

Although the objective is to pass around the message without it becoming garbled along the way, part of the enjoyment is that, regardless, this usually ends up happening.
Errors accumulate in the retellings, so the statement announced by the last player differs significantly from that of the first player, usually with amusing or humorous effect.

Reasons for changes include anxiousness or impatience, erroneous corrections, the difficult-to-understand mechanism of whispering,.. And that some players ‘deliberately alter’ what is being said to guarantee a changed message by the end of the line. Ref.com

This happens in real life – it’s cruel, and is created by a cold malicious heart.

A Human Behaviour Specialist, with more than thirty years experience, I have clients from all walks of life going through stressful times because of the truth being deliberately distorted against them.

Many of my clients are in high positions of leadership, including cultural elders.

Having the truth distorted against them is a human cruelty.

Distorted truth, becomes ‘hearsay’, this tittle-tattle is created by people of perceived authority, and is passed from person to person in the community. It appears to be the truth, because of who it was originally concocted by.

It happens in the workplace, it happens in families and community.
Distorted truth becomes malignant gossip, these lies, are growing factors to emotional suffering, which too often is resulting in suicide. It is vital to know and live the truth.

CHANGE YOUR HABITS, CHANGE YOUR LIFE

 A contributing factor to why I wrote the “Masterclass, Getting The Love You Want” is this frequently asked question! 
How to create change! 

Always seek truth.
Fully know what the truth is.
Ask better questions – seek clarity.
Don’t ask the story-teller - Ask the key person/people.

Stop bullying.
There have possibly always been distortions of truth... for us to instigate CHANGE, always be truthful. Truthful GOOD HABITS come from our VALUES. 

VALUES are the guiding principles people of truth live their life by.
begin your list, review your list...

Respect
– when self-respect is low, personal truth is already distorted.
Compassion
– when compassion is missing, self-passion, self-indulgence becomes obsessive.
Kindness
– when the human spirit is devoid of heart-centred kindness, respect is missing.
When respect is missing people ‘pretend’ to be kind but are actually seeking emotional
insight to distort and add to their mischief making stories.

You choose your thoughts ensure they truthfully align with your values.

As a Suicide Prevention approach, question the messenger, if it sounds like someone along the line has distorted the truth – they probably have. Always-Seek-Truth. A Human Behaviour Specialist, Sylvia Marina has committed her life to the discovery of what depletes the human spirit. In her workshops she generously gives you tools to create and live the life you desire.

#SuicidePrevention #AlwaysSeekTruth.

2018© SYLVIA MARINA. ND., A Human Behaviour Specialist
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HEAL MEMORY

Sunday, August 12, 2018

HEAL MEMORY– written by Sylvia Marina

Following our last newsletter, thankyou to all who wrote relating to ‘separation anxiety’. http://sylviamarina.com/_blog/Articles/post/separation-anxiety

The theme of most for not seeking help for anxiety is the fear of being labelled neurotic. Too many have been told their neurosis is all in the head. Statements like this are not helpful.

Anxiety activates one’s ‘fight, flight or freeze’ neuro-transmitters. These neurotransmitters trigger the constant release of relaxation hormones and endorphins. This can lead to a marked decrease in energy, the feeling of constant fatigue, exhaustion.

In an endeavour to cope with life people turn to stimulants, commonly sugar and caffeine.

What your body craves is sleep. Deep restful sleep that is difficult to achieve when your thoughts are constantly filled with the anxiety to achieve, combined with the fear of failure. This torment hinders people from trusting their self, they know they are intelligent but their anxiety causes their neurochemistry to become imbalanced.

I am successful in helping people identify the basis of anxieties so they can sleep peacefully, replenish their body and reset their neurotransmitters.

Many anxieties are hereditary, carried in the DNA for many generations, occasionally skipping a generation or, what is known as a ‘sleeper’ and the moment a trigger is activated the hidden anxiety actions into controlling, resulting in a chain reaction of debilitations.

The client will often say...”but I was well and able until....”
What happened?
An emotional trigger released trans-generation negative memory.

Our goal is not to forget a hurtful event or trauma, but to heal the memory so you or your client can regain their focus, strength and energy.

Human Behaviour Specialist, Sylvia Marina is the author of Self Mastery programs including “Transforming DNA Memories”. http://sylviamarina.com/Programs/Transforming-DNA-Memories.htm

Consultation bookings: http://sylviamarina.com/consultations-initial-skype-facetime

2018© SYLVIA MARINA. ND., Human Behaviour Specialist
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SEPARATION ANXIETY

Thursday, July 12, 2018

SEPARATION ANXIETY – written by Sylvia Marina

Recent years I have worked increasingly with people who suffer separation anxiety.

Frequently their symptoms involve a wide range of disorders.
For example nausea, nightmares, inability to concentrate, light sensitivity, weight & skin disorders, disassociation and crying - for no apparent reason... This is not imaginary. These are trauma memories manifesting as physical symptoms contributing to health and relationship issues.

It is a privilege to do this work as I see it time and time again when connection is made to the deeper inner self each person is emotionally freed to live and express their self in their own way – it’s like for the “first time” they are free to find their true voice, authenticity and passion.

Separation Anxiety: These feelings come from...but not limited to...

  • The separation from mother at birth, specifically if the child was whisked away from the mother rather than put on her belly for the primitive reflex of attachment to be aroused by the fragrant odour of the mother’s breast.
  • Separated from or Betrayed by, the people they trust.

Separation in early childhood result in adult life feelings of “abandonment, deserted, unfulfilled.” People find difficulties in creating or fully achieving their goals. They give-up on their big dreams! They have an expectation that life will deliver more disappointment.

Many interpret the trauma of ‘betrayed’ as ‘abused.’
Not all abuse leaves physical bruises. Emotional bruises leave stains that without specific help, are difficult to evolve from.

Separation Anxiety...the silent loss of...

  • In-utero or at birth separated from a twin.
  • In-utero death of a twin.
  • An infant death.
  • Permanent separation from the birth mother –
    adoption, surrogacy...

Pain upon pain of relationship disappointment, people from this experience have feelings of hopelessness. When health challenges
happen they give up easily feeling they have nothing to fight with.

Unaware that happiness can be their way of life, they have difficulty finding a stable place of connection, they have an underlying unconscious and sometimes conscious feeling something is missing – they feel they have left something behind and are frequently checking that “they have everything.”

My heart is blest, for the many who seek my work I know their future will be easier than the painful past as they build a resilience and strength that previously was not active.

Separation Anxiety Disorder is the fear or distress that can happen to both children and adults when they think about separating from home or from the people they've become attached to.

  • First day at school – for many this is traumatic the residue of the separation leads to adults staying in employment that they hate but fear a “first day” scenario.
  • Intimacy fears, the “first time” fear often stems from early childhood, potty training or that naked feeling of being “looked over” this energy pervades their personal space, the effect being “over-looked” - not being seen.

Not all these fears come from infancy, child-hood, or deprivation of innocence; many are inherited in other words, trans-generational.

  • Further, the aspect of Separation Anxiety Disorder stems from the colonisation of land or through natural disaster loss of land, food, abundance, wealth, loss of homeland...

There is an unconscious mantra – what I have gets taken away from me. These people fear abandonment, many become hoarders. And the opposite occurs too, the person has barely enough clothes and belongings to manage life the separation disorder manifesting as – if I have nothing then it can’t be taken from me.

  • A change in lifestyle from forced separation.

A change in lifestyle often results on the loss of rituals – when the grandparents die the ritual of Sunday lunch for example often carries a silent grief, the loss often results in “the family doesn’t gather anymore, or someone overcompensates and you feel smothered.

Fortunately, where there is difficulty in finding a place to connect or belong there are new skills specifically designed to restoring your inner faith, connecting you to your highest self, equipping you with the kind of resiliency, vision and creativity that transcends ordinary human capacities so you can activate your full potential.

Simply put, you need new skills to fulfil your life’s purpose.

Sylvia has awakened countless people to their life’s meaning and purpose. She enables people from all walks of life to discover better relationships, work they love, and a passion to become catalysts for higher potential.

You can heal your life. Book your place in the Transforming DNA Memories workshop closest to you.
Consultations available– in person or via Skype or Facetime.

2018© SYLVIA MARINA. ND., Human Behaviour Specialist T: +61 (0) 412 198 612 E: info@sylviamarina.com W: http://www.sylviamarina.com Skype: sylvia.marina
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SEARCH FOR THE HERO

Tuesday, June 05, 2018

SEARCH FOR THE HERO... written by Sylvia Marina ND.

A few days ago I was humming a little tune to myself – it felt good, and more so when I connected to the lyrics -

Search for the hero inside yourself.
Search for the secrets you hide.

I whispered to my soul. What are the secrets you hide?
Are there any? Self-inquiry is healthy. Often in our workshops people speak of shame, I relate to that energy which for many years controlled my life.

At some time or other each of us have faced emotional setback, childhood trauma, a diagnosis, tragedies, rejection and a series of real and illusory sufferings.

Search for the hero inside yourself.
Until you find the key to your life.

There are times when it takes a very bright light bulb moment to create a tiny spark of courage to permit the future to be different to the past. Some feel the road to change is too long, but if we never seek change we continue to live in frustration and disappointment.

Breaking unhealthy patterns ie the pattern by which you think about your self if this is not supporting the picture of how you wish to be, then it is an unhealthy way of being.

The way you wish to be is confident, having surety in every situation. To some this may seem like a fantasy but I have seen it happen so often with people who attend our courses – they reach out for clarity or as the lyrics of the song say – until you find the key to your heart.

With assuredness we become enlightened and evolved, we only accept the love we truly deserve. We refuse to settle for lukewarm love. In any or all of our relationships including the relationship we have with our-self, lukewarm love is not sincere, genuine or truthful. It results in illusory suffering.

Love with infrequent spark is regretful, sorrowful, shame. Those in this relationship feel some love is better than no love. Lets be clear. Apathetic love makes you believe that your relationship is worth clinging on to even though it has turned or is turning into an overwhelming and emotionally draining monster.

Apathy is happening when the effort to make change seems too hard affecting relationships of health, home, intimacy, friendships.
Search for the hero inside yourself. Until you find the key to your life.

Supportive relationship(s) are liberating giving you ample opportunity to discover your entelechy, your hidden potential.

Your healing process will not fully happen until you decide to accept nothing less than positive influences in your life.

2018© SYLVIA MARINA. ND., Human Behaviour Specialist T: +61 (0) 412 198 612 E: info@sylviamarina.com W: http://www.sylviamarina.com Skype: sylvia.marina
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